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No 40                                                                               November 2004

End of Year Stress Busters

It's been a heavy year and things are not letting up. You feel as if you're on a treadmill and just cannot get ahead. Does the thought of Christmas (just a few weeks away) and the end-of-year stresses make you want to run away fast? Is there anything you can do about it?

Your mother-in-law drops in, the boss wants to see you right away, that contract is not coming together, there's a letter from the Receiver and the clutch of your car packed up this morning in rush hour traffic. You feel as if you're about to pack up too.

Don't panic. A bit of stress is not always a bad thing. Without any stress, your life would be dull, monotonous, lacking change and excitement. However, prolong that stress for weeks or months and your body will soon start to show the consequences.

We are put together to deal with sudden shocks, such as a lion wandering out from behind the next tree, or a snake appearing from underneath a rock. Our adrenaline levels become instantly elevated, gearing the body for fast thinking and quick action, fighting or running away.

But live with the threat of retrenchment or divorce or bankruptcy for months, and this adrenaline rush will certainly wreak havoc on your body. Your body will produce more cortisol, retain sodium in the bloodstream, produce excess glucose, produce excess amino acids and raise cholesterol and blood lipid levels. Symptoms of prolonged stress can include:

    • An increased heartbeat
    • Higher blood pressure
    • Blood sugar fluctuations
    • Feelings of aggression and irritability
    • Sleep disturbances
    • Compromised immunity
    • Appetite changes
    • Weight fluctuations

So what are the things you should do to reduce these stress levels? Obviously, you have to deal with the cause of your stress first. All the relaxation techniques in the world will have little long-term effect if you continue to find yourself in a highly stressful situation.

Exercise, exercise, exercise

You've heard it all before. Exercise regularly, at least 20  30 minutes three times a week, etc, etc, etc.. Without going into a lot of detail, various experts say that the bottom line is that it is less trouble to go for that walk or that run than it is to cope with the effects of long-term stress.

But, while exercising is important, it is not by any means the only thing you can do.

Face the dragon.

Avoiding a problem or agonising about it in silence will just cause those adrenalin levels to climb. Dr Jan van Leeuwen, clinical and counselling psychologist, recommends that one redefines the problem. According to him, the solution to a problem lies in its meaning, its perception and its definition. On your own things could appear insoluble. A friend, or a counsellor could give you a different perspective.

Limit your caffeine intake.

Your body takes five hours to process caffeine, so if you have your first cup at six a.m. and the last one at 11 p.m., your body is basically never caffeine-free. Caffeine, which is also present in tea, chocolate and some soda drinks, heightens your blood pressure and stops your adrenal glands from functioning at their best. In short, caffeine increases, not decreases, your stress levels.

Eat healthy foods regularly.

Don't skip meals, as this will cause your blood sugar to drop, worsening the effect of the blood glucose fluctuations you experience when stressed. Many people also resort to eating high-energy junk food or sweets in an attempt to counteract the sluggishness brought on by low blood sugar levels. Yoghurt, fruit, fruit juice, vegetables, cottage cheese and high-fibre cereal are good things to eat. This will help to regulate your blood glucose levels.

Avoid excessive alcohol use.

Many people resort to alcohol as a stress reliever. And often the first glass will relax you, but it's downhill from there. Alcohol is actually a nervous system depressant, and in the long run, can actually cause depression, not relieve it. When you are stressed, it's probably a good idea to stay away from alcohol altogether, especially since it's so much easier to fall into the pattern of drinking more and more when you are stressed, adding to your existing stress levels.

Get enough sleep.

Anyone who has ever been subjected to stress, knows that a good night's sleep is often the first thing to go. Adults need eight hours of sleep a night  few get more than seven. When we are sleeping deeply, our breathing, our heart rate and blood pressure reach their lowest levels of the day. Our bodies need sleep to recharge and to aid the healing processes. Professor Michael Simpson, a psychiatrist, recommends avoiding alcohol, large meals at night and daytime napping. Drink a glass of warm milk before you go to bed, as milk contains an amino acid that is converted into a sleep-enhancing compound in the brain.

Exercise, exercise, exercise

You've heard it all before. Exercise regularly, at least 20  30 minutes three times a week, etc, etc, etc.. Without going into a lot of detail, various experts say that the bottom line is that it is less trouble to go for that walk or that run than it is to cope with the effects of long-term stress.

Learn relaxation techniques.

Learn relaxation techniques, which will help to reduce the effects of stress on your body. There are lots of suggestions on the web. When you relax, your body will stop producing cortisol in excess, which in turn will increase the effective functioning of your immune system, lowering your chances of infection.

Cut down your salt intake.

When sodium levels are raised for too long in your body, it disrupts the natural passage of nutrients to the body's cells. Too much sodium over a prolonged period of time can raise your blood pressure and damage your heart muscle. If your blood pressure is too high, it can lead to your feeling constantly tired. And if you're constantly feeling wiped out, you cannot cope with the stress in your life.

Stop smoking.

You've heard this one before. Nicotine causes a slight increase of the serotonin levels in your brain. But in the long run, smoking, and all its attendant ills, becomes a stressor in itself. Smoking really puts stress on your body, greatly limiting its ability to cope with outside stressors.

Develop multiple coping strategies.

Lean on your support system. Sharing your problems with others certainly puts them in perspective. But also do something physical. Men tend to go for the physical stress-buster, women for the support system of friends and family. The most successful people are the ones who have a variety of stress-busting options. Having only one coping style, could get you into trouble if you can't use it, or it doesn't work.

A Survival Kit For Every Day Living

Items Needed:

Toothpick
Rubber Band
Band Aid
Pencil
Eraser
Chewing Gum
Mint
Candy Kiss
Tea Bag

Why???

  1. TOOTHPICK - to remind you to pick out the good qualities in others.
  2. RUBBER BAND - to remind you to be flexible, things might not always go the way you want, but it will work out.
  3. BAND AID - to remind you to heal hurt feelings, yours or someone else's.
  4. PENCIL - to remind you to list your blessings everyday.
  5. ERASER - To remind you that everyone makes mistakes, and its OK.
  6. CHEWING GUM - to remind you to stick with it and you can accomplish anything.
  7. MINT - to remind you that you are worth a mint.
  8. CANDY KISS - to remind you that everyone needs a kiss or a hug everyday.
  9. TEA BAG - to remind you to relax daily and reflect on all the positive things in your life. A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one.

Have a Sensational day! and do something today to reduce your end-of-year stress.

 

 
   
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